How to support someone living with depression

Supporting a friend, family member, or colleague who is navigating life with depression can feel challenging.

It’s natural to wonder how best to help, and while professional mental health care is essential, your support can make a significant difference in their journey towards wellbeing.

According to Choosing Therapy, with the right combination of professional care, personal coping strategies, and the encouragement of those around them, it is entirely possible for someone living with depression to reclaim a fulfilling life.

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A man and his wife, who is concerned about his wellbeing, looking to support him through his depression

Signs and symptoms of depression

Depression manifests differently from person to person, but some common signs and symptoms according to Beyond Blue include:

  • Persistent sadness, hopelessness, or feelings of worthlessness
  • Loss of interest in previously enjoyed activities
  • Changes in appetite and sleep patterns
  • Fatigue or low-energy
  • Difficulty concentrating or ‘brain fog’
  • Frequent negative thoughts, including thoughts of suicide

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 000. If a loved one is not in immediate danger but needs support, encourage them to reach out to Lifeline at 13 11 14, or visit their GP.

You can also learn more about recognising the signs of depression here.

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Practical tips for supporting someone with depression

Supporting someone with depression can feel daunting, but here are some practical steps you can take, according to information from Health Direct:

1. Encourage open communication

A crucial way to support someone with depression is to foster an environment of open and honest communication.

Let them know you’re there to listen without judgment, whenever they need to talk. Understand that everyone is different, so ask what kind of support they need and be ready to adjust your approach.

Whether in person or over the phone, creating a safe space where they can express their feelings without fear of criticism is key.

2. Provide emotional support

Your presence can be incredibly comforting for someone with depression. Simply spending time together—whether through conversation, sharing a meal, or enjoying a quiet walk—can help them feel less alone.

While it's natural to want to fix things, try to focus on listening and being a supportive presence rather than offering solutions.

3. Assist with daily tasks

Depression can make everyday tasks like grocery shopping, cooking, or even getting out of bed seem insurmountable.

Offering practical help with these tasks can provide a sense of accomplishment and reduce feelings of isolation. Breaking down larger tasks into manageable steps can also make them less overwhelming.

4. Educate yourself

Understanding depression better equips you to offer meaningful support. By learning about the signs, symptoms, and effects of depression, you can better empathise with your loved one’s experience.

This knowledge not only helps you provide more informed support but also shows your loved one that you care enough to understand what they’re going through.

For more insights, read our blog on living with depression.

5. Encourage seeking professional help

While your support is invaluable, remember that depression is a serious condition that often requires professional treatment.

Gently encourage your loved one to seek help from a doctor or mental health professional. If they’re hesitant, you could research mental health resources together, offer to help them book an appointment, or even accompany them to their first session if it provides comfort.

A woman providing support for her friend who is living with depression

Remember to take care of yourself

Supporting someone with depression is important, but so is looking after your own wellbeing. Ensure you’re practicing self-care and setting boundaries to avoid burnout.

If you’re struggling with the emotional toll, don’t hesitate to seek guidance from a mental health professional.

Supporting someone through depression can be challenging, but it’s also deeply rewarding.

By offering practical and emotional support, and encouraging professional help, you can make a positive impact on your loved one’s path to managing depression.



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